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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

15.06.2025 01:12

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

I said to her

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

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We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

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She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

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That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

We were not on the streets..

He was dying to do it , i knew.

Why do men say women hit the wall at 24?

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Would this be the day?

It was going to be , some day.

What is chudai?

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

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And i lived it daily.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

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I have no regrets .

But it wasn’t much.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

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My family never makes their pension either.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

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Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

How can a man clean his Soul?

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

He resisted the act ,that day.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

When she asked me how she looked .

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

What did i know ?

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

Especially a lifetime of it.

We all went to grammer schools

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Ive learnt so much.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Im still living with it.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

I could never make a relationship work though!

On the 31st of Jan this month .

This is soul school!.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

I was seconnd youngest,

Im dying but, im not bitter.

She was in good health!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

She found it foreign!.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

I was 9 years of age.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

One cannot live in the past .

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Who then, do I blame.?

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

My mum and dad in the seventies!

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

All the time i was locked up.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

I was scared of men, in general

(And it was in our own minds.)

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

And who doesn’t know suffering?

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

She loved him until the end.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

I think the readers, may guess!

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As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I waited trembling.

She wouldn,t have been !

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

I don,t even have a pension.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

But ive been too sick for many years..

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

But, we were locked up after school.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

He knew the spot.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

Was to survive, this bastard.

I write beautiful poetry .

I did it because my mum asked me too!

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I will be 64.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

I never cut or harmed myself..

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Why did i forgive my father ?

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

This is how, and why children get BPD.

So, i spoilt her more .

So whats the point in blame.

She married twice! .

Comes on , in middle age.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I was very sick at this time too.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

My life is so biszare .

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

As i do to all so called friends.?

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

I couldn’t, believe it.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Put me off passion for life!!

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.